My Story of Alienation by DH from Massachusetts

I was a single mom who thought I had a close relationship with my son.  I loved him deeply and always wanted the best for him.  When he met his wife, I was thrilled – she was wonderful to him, and I quickly grew to love her too.  My joy multiplied when they had my beautiful granddaughter in 2019.  I was actively involved in her life from the start, seeing her regularly, playing with her, and building a special bond.  

When my grandson arrived, I was there to support them, helping with the kids and around the house. I even helped with childcare when my daughter-in-law went back to work and during their move to a new home.  We celebrated holidays together, and everything seemed wonderful.

Then, Christmas 2021 changed everything.  My son’s response to my simple question about holiday plans was a shock.  He told me they wanted to celebrate Christmas alone and that I would be told when I could visit sometime in January.  When I expressed my hurt, he told me that despite being a “fabulous grandmother,” we didn’t have a good relationship.  He refused to talk about it.  I spent that Christmas heartbroken.  A few weeks later, I was allowed a one-hour visit to give the children their gifts.  That was the last time I saw them.

Since then, I have been completely cut off.  Blocked from all communication.  It’s been over two years, and the pain is indescribable. I am grieving for my son and grandchildren while they are still alive. 

I have no idea what I did wrong, what caused this sudden and devastating rift.  This experience has shattered me.  I’ve become a shell of my former self, withdrawing from life and struggling with depression and health issues brought on by the immense stress and heartbreak.  

I understand now the true meaning of a broken heart.  I honestly don’t know if I will ever see my grandchildren or my son again.

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